Post by Eleanor Rigby on Sept 23, 2013 18:27:42 GMT
I know I'm not the only one who has issues with their PD's FOO so come join me here in a bitchfest lol. 
My biggest obstacle is my H mother. She won't come right out and say what she means so she says it in underhanded ways. She is a pathological liar and gives great lip service. No wonder her 3 sons are such proficient liars as well. Last night I had the displeasure of having a phone conversation with her. I had called her only to ask a question and even told her I was not staying on the phone for long...almost 2 hours later she was still talking and the WHOLE conversation was about how I am wrong about everything and she is right.
For instance, how I have it all wrong about Diabetes and how diabetics are not ALLOWED to eat ANYTHING with sugar...um, yeah they are. I have been a nurse for 22 years, I have Diabetes, she is NOT diabetic, she has NO medical training whatsoever, she bases her knowledge on what her GRANDMOTHER was told 50 YEARS AGO! She also informed me that although I consult trained clergy about spiritual and biblical matters that I am just taking someone else's word for the truth. Wanna know who her spiritual adviser is? HER FUCKING SISTER! Just because her sister took a course to become an ordained minister, according to the monster in law she now knows all there is to know about God and the bible. REALLY?! IS THAT SO?! I then had to sit and listened to her tell me for the umpteen millionth time how I have it all wrong about her son's PD, his behavior and the abuse I suffer because I'm not really an abused wife since I've never ended up in the hospital fighting for my life as a result of her son hitting me. Wow. Seriously?
So, let's see what ABUSE IS NOT...
Calling me everything but human for no other reason than I disagreed with him.
Threatening to kill me.
Threatening to harm my pets.
Threatening to smash my belongings.
Threatening to disable my only vehicle so I can't go anywhere or leave him.
Shoving me and "play" punching me.
Making threatening faces at me.
Gritting his teeth at me.
Screaming at me for any reason.
Drawing his fist back to hit me as a threatening move.
Belittling me, my family and friends.
Threatening to call the police when we have an argument to say that I am abusing HIM and he is afraid of ME so I will get arrested for battery.
Refusing to pay the bills and my credit cards so I go into default and ruin my credit.
Not allowing me to work because it will interfere with his disability and medicaid (double edged sword here because I can't make enough to afford his meds and treatment so I'm stuck not being able to work so he can keep his benefit)
Not paying for my transcripts so I can start school.
Telling me to shut up when I am trying to talk to someone face to face (probably because he already has or intends to lie to them).
Mocking me when I ask him to stop doing something that is bothering me.
Patronizing me.
Not taking off the trash regularly and letting it pile up for 6 months at a time or more.
Not helping me keep the house clean then getting angry because he has no clean clothes or clean dishes.
Not caring for HIS dogs.
Refusing to work.
Refusing to pay his child support so I had to.
Now for the really good stuff!
Slamming me face first into a closed window and shattering the glass.
Sucker punching me in the base of my skull which sent me to my knees then leaving me on the floor while he jumps in the car and races to mommy's house telling her that he punched me and thought I was dead.
Choking me to the point I lost my voice, could not eat or drink and had to spit my own saliva out of my mouth for 3 weeks.
Slamming me face first into a solid wood door because I was taking laundry out to be washed.
Kicking me in the hip and back, IN FRONT OF HIS MOTHER, because I took the laundry to be washed.
Twice grabbing me in a headlock and holding me face first into the bed mattress trying to suffocate me.
Shoving me backwards into the corner of a wall just 2 days after I had spinal fusion surgery on my low back and only 3 months after spinal fusion surgery on my neck.
And many many many other incidents that I have lost count of over 2 decades.
Hmmm, now that I think about it...you're right monster in law! Your son is an absolute perfect angel and any woman would be lucky to have him! I should bow down and kiss your ass for giving birth to him then bow down and kiss his ass just for existing!! I'm surprised the entire population of women isn't beating the door down to marry him! Golly Gee Monster in law I'm so glad we had this talk and you opened my eyes. How could such a slovenly, undeserving wretch like me be so privileged to be your daughter in law and even more so to be married to the perfection that is your son!! All hail Queen Monster in Law and her son, Prince Perfection!!!
I cannot believe that I EVER liked this woman!! She says all the time that when she met me she hated me, how I was a bitch, sarcastic and mean and how I hated her too. The ONLY part she got right is that she hated me! I never did a damn thing to that cow but respect her in every way possible and she has done nothing for 20 years but tear me down. FUCK HER! OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOH one of these days I'm going to go off on her so bad and tell her just what I think of her!! It won't be until I have already walked out the door and left her piece of shit son behind because if I say it to her face she will hit me and I refuse to go to prison for killing the bitch!!! I'm going to write a letter to her and I know after she reads it she will say that I was too chicken shit afraid of her to say it to her face but ya know? I won't hear her say it, I'll be long gone and far away from them all and it just does not matter what any of them think, say or do as long as they stay to hell away from me!!!
Stupid cow...
My biggest obstacle is my H mother. She won't come right out and say what she means so she says it in underhanded ways. She is a pathological liar and gives great lip service. No wonder her 3 sons are such proficient liars as well. Last night I had the displeasure of having a phone conversation with her. I had called her only to ask a question and even told her I was not staying on the phone for long...almost 2 hours later she was still talking and the WHOLE conversation was about how I am wrong about everything and she is right.
For instance, how I have it all wrong about Diabetes and how diabetics are not ALLOWED to eat ANYTHING with sugar...um, yeah they are. I have been a nurse for 22 years, I have Diabetes, she is NOT diabetic, she has NO medical training whatsoever, she bases her knowledge on what her GRANDMOTHER was told 50 YEARS AGO! She also informed me that although I consult trained clergy about spiritual and biblical matters that I am just taking someone else's word for the truth. Wanna know who her spiritual adviser is? HER FUCKING SISTER! Just because her sister took a course to become an ordained minister, according to the monster in law she now knows all there is to know about God and the bible. REALLY?! IS THAT SO?! I then had to sit and listened to her tell me for the umpteen millionth time how I have it all wrong about her son's PD, his behavior and the abuse I suffer because I'm not really an abused wife since I've never ended up in the hospital fighting for my life as a result of her son hitting me. Wow. Seriously?
So, let's see what ABUSE IS NOT...
Calling me everything but human for no other reason than I disagreed with him.
Threatening to kill me.
Threatening to harm my pets.
Threatening to smash my belongings.
Threatening to disable my only vehicle so I can't go anywhere or leave him.
Shoving me and "play" punching me.
Making threatening faces at me.
Gritting his teeth at me.
Screaming at me for any reason.
Drawing his fist back to hit me as a threatening move.
Belittling me, my family and friends.
Threatening to call the police when we have an argument to say that I am abusing HIM and he is afraid of ME so I will get arrested for battery.
Refusing to pay the bills and my credit cards so I go into default and ruin my credit.
Not allowing me to work because it will interfere with his disability and medicaid (double edged sword here because I can't make enough to afford his meds and treatment so I'm stuck not being able to work so he can keep his benefit)
Not paying for my transcripts so I can start school.
Telling me to shut up when I am trying to talk to someone face to face (probably because he already has or intends to lie to them).
Mocking me when I ask him to stop doing something that is bothering me.
Patronizing me.
Not taking off the trash regularly and letting it pile up for 6 months at a time or more.
Not helping me keep the house clean then getting angry because he has no clean clothes or clean dishes.
Not caring for HIS dogs.
Refusing to work.
Refusing to pay his child support so I had to.
Now for the really good stuff!
Slamming me face first into a closed window and shattering the glass.
Sucker punching me in the base of my skull which sent me to my knees then leaving me on the floor while he jumps in the car and races to mommy's house telling her that he punched me and thought I was dead.
Choking me to the point I lost my voice, could not eat or drink and had to spit my own saliva out of my mouth for 3 weeks.
Slamming me face first into a solid wood door because I was taking laundry out to be washed.
Kicking me in the hip and back, IN FRONT OF HIS MOTHER, because I took the laundry to be washed.
Twice grabbing me in a headlock and holding me face first into the bed mattress trying to suffocate me.
Shoving me backwards into the corner of a wall just 2 days after I had spinal fusion surgery on my low back and only 3 months after spinal fusion surgery on my neck.
And many many many other incidents that I have lost count of over 2 decades.
Hmmm, now that I think about it...you're right monster in law! Your son is an absolute perfect angel and any woman would be lucky to have him! I should bow down and kiss your ass for giving birth to him then bow down and kiss his ass just for existing!! I'm surprised the entire population of women isn't beating the door down to marry him! Golly Gee Monster in law I'm so glad we had this talk and you opened my eyes. How could such a slovenly, undeserving wretch like me be so privileged to be your daughter in law and even more so to be married to the perfection that is your son!! All hail Queen Monster in Law and her son, Prince Perfection!!!
I cannot believe that I EVER liked this woman!! She says all the time that when she met me she hated me, how I was a bitch, sarcastic and mean and how I hated her too. The ONLY part she got right is that she hated me! I never did a damn thing to that cow but respect her in every way possible and she has done nothing for 20 years but tear me down. FUCK HER! OOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOH one of these days I'm going to go off on her so bad and tell her just what I think of her!! It won't be until I have already walked out the door and left her piece of shit son behind because if I say it to her face she will hit me and I refuse to go to prison for killing the bitch!!! I'm going to write a letter to her and I know after she reads it she will say that I was too chicken shit afraid of her to say it to her face but ya know? I won't hear her say it, I'll be long gone and far away from them all and it just does not matter what any of them think, say or do as long as they stay to hell away from me!!!
Stupid cow...
