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Post by streetdancer on Oct 21, 2013 22:08:46 GMT
THE ONE MEMBER WHO NEVER BROKE A GUIDELINE.
BANNED FOR LIFE. I WOULD SAY THEY SHOULD BE ASHAMED OF THEMSELVES BUT NONE OF THEM HAVE ANY.
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Post by CGisNuts on Oct 21, 2013 22:21:23 GMT
Wow, wtf. What did they say she did? What was their Ahole reasoning?
what a shame. She is such a nice girl, and they've totally done something horrible. Bunch of losers at OOTF.
One day one of them is going to ban someone who is a bad emotional state. Someone who relies on that place for support. They'll have a bad day, write something that one of the Moroniators won't like, be banned, then do something out of being hurt and make a bad choice. The Moroniators are not professionals and think they are.
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Post by streetdancer on Oct 21, 2013 22:34:30 GMT
YOU ARE RIGHT. ONE DAY THEY WILL KILL SOMEONE.
THEY DIDNT GIVE A REASON.
SHE JOINED IN SOMEWHAT OF A SUICIDAL STATE. SHE MAY GO OUT ON ONE NOW.
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Post by CGisNuts on Oct 21, 2013 22:40:08 GMT
Oh God that's bad to know.
Seriously they don't have training and don't know how to handle people and don't think of the results of their actions.
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Post by Eleanor Rigby on Oct 21, 2013 22:45:57 GMT
I was just perusing the recent topics over there and it's like a PD convention! Bad enough you can't use your own pet names to describe the PD in your life (remember Momster?) now you're not allowed to use the word "insane". Even angry posts, ie: ranting/venting, are being discouraged. It seems that everyone on that board is so busy being offended they've lost touch with the whole purpose of it. Isn't it supposed to be a "support" board as well as providing information? Sounds more like a house of horrors to me. Too much haughtiness going on.
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Post by Elementum on Oct 22, 2013 0:38:40 GMT
That is totally insane!!! Is anyone here in touch with her via email?? Direct her here , she knows You SD and CG, she knows me as well. At least we are not total strangers to her. Poor little creature. She has been doing so well and Gary knows how to help her the best. They have a great rapport.
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Post by wanderer on Oct 22, 2013 0:44:30 GMT
hey guys this is wanderer, the one who was recently banned from outofthefog... Thank you so much for your touching comments. I was honestly touched...thank you so much I'm going to be ok though its going to be rough. They missed out and they got scared of me not abiding by their rules and just giving them power. But it doesn't matter since they already set themselves up to ruin themselves anyways... But I did come in a suicidal state and leave a stronger, more fragile state. I feel a lot stronger and i'm willing to keep being open with myself and be honest with others about who I am... Legit one day they will but then one day there will be no one left for them to pick on. So they will pick on themselves and tear each other apart... But as long as you focus on healing yourself and on supporting others with doing the same, things will get better. As for the ones that choose to remain stuck and offended by those healing and by having their power questioned, its their loss sadly and their choice... But for those willing to heal and stay strong and be themselves, I will do whatever it takes to heal myself and to help others and support others to heal Thank you again for your kind words
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Post by Elementum on Oct 22, 2013 0:48:28 GMT
Wanderer thank goodness!!!! Unbelievable what they are doing...truly! I have no idea what "rules" you have ever broken!!! None!
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Post by wanderer on Oct 22, 2013 1:21:52 GMT
Wanderer thank goodness!!!! Unbelievable what they are doing...truly! I have no idea what "rules" you have ever broken!!! None! lol hey solarflare lol its good to see u too did they ban u too...what idiots to be honest... I agree. I honestly didn't do anything... Though legit I think I just wasn't afraid to be myself and go against what they were saying to me. Since recently before I got banned I was told to so called "move on" from my teacher. But how the hell can you do that without grieving to be honest? The outofthefog forum is legit going downhill to be honest...its going to lose it all and crash and burn... lol thank u so much for ur kind words <3
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Post by Elementum on Oct 22, 2013 2:53:13 GMT
Good for you. Being yourself. Noticed that on several boards, unless it's lock step and barrel fall into some sort of preconceived notion of another's way of thinking , people are getting banned. Even cock up accusations to do so. lol. They can "ask" you to move on in your process, fair enough, but You decide when you are ready...ya know? People can "ask" a lot of things, that doesn't necessarily mean you need to comply. Depends if it is for the higher good or not. Kind of have to laugh at the hypocrisy on several boards these days. Your words are still there and they will be helpful to others making a similar journey. Elsewhere, I have written what looks like books...and I see that is being read and the message is coming forward now as well. Skip's little move back fired. lol Believe in YourSelf. ..because if You don't? Who will?
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Post by CGisNuts on Oct 22, 2013 14:48:20 GMT
2Bad is a bit of a tart.
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Post by Elementum on Oct 23, 2013 0:07:04 GMT
What do you mean?
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Post by CGisNuts on Oct 23, 2013 0:16:15 GMT
Oh so you know what a tart is. I'm kidding, just like that phase.
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Post by wanderer on Nov 5, 2013 16:10:16 GMT
Good for you. Being yourself. Noticed that on several boards, unless it's lock step and barrel fall into some sort of preconceived notion of another's way of thinking , people are getting banned. Even cock up accusations to do so. lol. They can "ask" you to move on in your process, fair enough, but You decide when you are ready...ya know? People can "ask" a lot of things, that doesn't necessarily mean you need to comply. Depends if it is for the higher good or not. Kind of have to laugh at the hypocrisy on several boards these days. Your words are still there and they will be helpful to others making a similar journey. Elsewhere, I have written what looks like books...and I see that is being read and the message is coming forward now as well. Skip's little move back fired. lol Believe in YourSelf. ..because if You don't? Who will? Honestly thank you for your kind words solarflare though I was crushed down by those who didn't believe in me, it's important to never stop believing in yourself
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Post by Elementum on Nov 5, 2013 16:46:43 GMT
That's the spirit!!!
No matter how crappy the day is, somebody on the planet has a way poopier day than I. So it can't be as bad as I thought. Some days I will admit were Blacker than black....but....gut through it. Made it through some of the craziest A$$ bs I never knew could happen. And others, have had far worse. So, it's relative.
How are things going for you on the home front?
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