Love is Respect dot org

Good one ER.

That link opens up to Should We Get Back Together?  
Uh...no.

I feel that I can communicate openly with this person about anything that's bothering me without getting into an argument.
No.
I respect this person's boundaries and I know that they respect mine too.
No, he has no clue about boundaries.
I trust that this person isn't lying or cheating on me without having to go through their phone or social media to make sure.
No, and I don't check his stuff to confirm either. I know he is lying.
I do not feel afraid that this person might lash out at me verbally or physically.
No, he will and does.
I know that this person would never pressure me to do anything I'm not comfortable with.
Oddly enough, setting  a boundary a while back, he is careful there
I would never try to make this person do anything that they haven't consented to.
Correct, I would not.
I recognize that I can only control my own behaviors and am not responsible for anyone else's.
Correct.
I've seen significant and continuous change in this person or myself when it comes to the reasons the relationship ended.
No. Same same.
We encourage each other to spend time outside of the relationship with friends and activities.
No, he hates that I do anything with anyone other than him when he is home and questioned me when he was not.
I feel that I am treated as an equal by this person.
LOL...yeah sure, equal to dirt?  No.