Post by CGisNuts on Oct 10, 2013 15:36:04 GMT
Now my stbex who has done so many terrible things during the marriage and the night I was falsely arrested, then filed for divorce, now has some PD imagination that we can reconcile.
wtf...... she is so NPD.
She has blamed all her actions on her lawyer.
btw, all charges were dropped and her lies for all proven to be "Unfounded"
So when she told all my daughters friends parents I was this and that, and when she went to CPS, called the school, didn't return my texts requesting to see my daughter, that was all her lawyer? Yeah, okay. And if it was, are you to stupid to say no?, ridiculous.
So because I am the better person, and looking for the best interests of my daughter, I am willing to be friends.
Even after what she did, it's for my daughter, and I want to move ahead with my life, not battle her in court.
For 84 days I didn't see my daughter, being 2x she called CPS and made up stuff..... For the 5th time in 10 years, all which have been proven "unfounded" every time.
Arrested twice and had serious charges against me, all dropped by the state.
Not allowed to even go into the school, and when I did was escorted out by the police.
All my daughters friends think I'm a monster and they will not let their kids come over.
A black-sheep in my community.
Of course with her failure to take ownership of her actions, she somehow is thinking we can reconcile, lol. Are you kidding me?
Why would I want to reconcile with a "woman" (girl) who for many of 10 years made me miserable, and within the last year of the marriage,
accused me everyday of having an affair with a woman in my networking group. It started when at a meeting I didn't say(on a business meeting) I love you to her on the phone.
Her checking through the mobile carrier who I called, when I called, who I texted and when, and then would actually call the numbers.
Who would expect me to spend every holiday at her parents, who would ignore me and say bad shit about me, and she would not defend her husband.
A woman who refused to stick to a budget and waste money on senseless shit.
A woman who would demand to know why in took me 10 minutes to get milk instead of 8, and would be monitoring my phone activity while I was out.
A woman who would try to install tracking on my phone to use as a GPS.
For 5 years straight would throw tantrums when I had to work on projects if she was home, who didn't understand that working was something people do during the week.
Who would freak out if on a Tuesday if she had off of work would expect me to neglect work to spend the whole day with her.
Who would NEVER tell me her schedule unless I told her "I wanted to take the most wonderful woman out and treat her", who would then freak if I had deadlines on her day off.
A woman who would Google and call my clients if they were female. Then demand I tell them I was married and had children before we had a meeting.
A woman who wanted my life's goal to be "I want you to want to make me happy"
So........ She really thinks that there is any chance to work things out. She asks:
Why don't you still love me, why can't you still love me, why can't you try to work things out, please love me.....
It's kind of sad.
Why the hell would I want to go back?
She is trying to Guilt and Hoover big time, wanting to meet and talk. Being friends after what she did would be huge for someone who did what she did. Not her, it's gimmie, gimmie, gimmie more, more, more.
She doesn't get that our daughter needs her parents to work together, so she of course is taking advantage of this to get More.
wtf...... she is so NPD.
She has blamed all her actions on her lawyer.
btw, all charges were dropped and her lies for all proven to be "Unfounded"
So when she told all my daughters friends parents I was this and that, and when she went to CPS, called the school, didn't return my texts requesting to see my daughter, that was all her lawyer? Yeah, okay. And if it was, are you to stupid to say no?, ridiculous.
So because I am the better person, and looking for the best interests of my daughter, I am willing to be friends.
Even after what she did, it's for my daughter, and I want to move ahead with my life, not battle her in court.
For 84 days I didn't see my daughter, being 2x she called CPS and made up stuff..... For the 5th time in 10 years, all which have been proven "unfounded" every time.
Arrested twice and had serious charges against me, all dropped by the state.
Not allowed to even go into the school, and when I did was escorted out by the police.
All my daughters friends think I'm a monster and they will not let their kids come over.
A black-sheep in my community.
Of course with her failure to take ownership of her actions, she somehow is thinking we can reconcile, lol. Are you kidding me?
Why would I want to reconcile with a "woman" (girl) who for many of 10 years made me miserable, and within the last year of the marriage,
accused me everyday of having an affair with a woman in my networking group. It started when at a meeting I didn't say(on a business meeting) I love you to her on the phone.
Her checking through the mobile carrier who I called, when I called, who I texted and when, and then would actually call the numbers.
Who would expect me to spend every holiday at her parents, who would ignore me and say bad shit about me, and she would not defend her husband.
A woman who refused to stick to a budget and waste money on senseless shit.
A woman who would demand to know why in took me 10 minutes to get milk instead of 8, and would be monitoring my phone activity while I was out.
A woman who would try to install tracking on my phone to use as a GPS.
For 5 years straight would throw tantrums when I had to work on projects if she was home, who didn't understand that working was something people do during the week.
Who would freak out if on a Tuesday if she had off of work would expect me to neglect work to spend the whole day with her.
Who would NEVER tell me her schedule unless I told her "I wanted to take the most wonderful woman out and treat her", who would then freak if I had deadlines on her day off.
A woman who would Google and call my clients if they were female. Then demand I tell them I was married and had children before we had a meeting.
A woman who wanted my life's goal to be "I want you to want to make me happy"
So........ She really thinks that there is any chance to work things out. She asks:
Why don't you still love me, why can't you still love me, why can't you try to work things out, please love me.....
It's kind of sad.
Why the hell would I want to go back?
She is trying to Guilt and Hoover big time, wanting to meet and talk. Being friends after what she did would be huge for someone who did what she did. Not her, it's gimmie, gimmie, gimmie more, more, more.
She doesn't get that our daughter needs her parents to work together, so she of course is taking advantage of this to get More.
