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Post by Elementum on Oct 4, 2013 16:46:12 GMT
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Post by Eleanor Rigby on Oct 6, 2013 0:53:08 GMT
Holy crap that last paragraph makes perfect sense!
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Post by Elementum on Oct 6, 2013 2:37:59 GMT
Yep...child abuse and neglect. Different forms of that as well and each child also with different needs and sensitivities.
Uncovering traumatic material is to gain conscious control over the shitty experiences. The presence of strong attachments provides the sense of security and allows a person to explore their life experiences and break the patterns.
paraphrasing that last bit^^
But if you don't have that sort of security or the attachments are based on a power play? [ FOO ] You're kind of screwed and have to schlep it on your own. I am grateful for my GF here. She has been my rock in this storm for years.
Ya know, this stuff still brings tears to my eyes. Bizarre.
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Post by Eleanor Rigby on Oct 6, 2013 2:50:48 GMT
It sure explains my love for horror, to me it's actually comforting. I know, I'm a sick puppy lol.
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Post by Elementum on Oct 6, 2013 3:21:34 GMT
Horror shows? Can't do those...scare the crap out of me. Have night mares. Nope. No can do. Fantasy, science fiction, ok....X files, loved it but scared the crap out of at times too.
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Post by Eleanor Rigby on Oct 6, 2013 3:29:47 GMT
Most ppl don't like horror but I LOVE IT! If I have to choose between a horror movie or some other type I will always choose horror. You should see my Netflix lineup LMAO!  |
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Post by Elementum on Oct 6, 2013 4:41:49 GMT
Dracula is OK Vampire flicks...but Hostel? that sort of thing? Freaks the hell out of me. Silence of the Lambs ....egh...people like that exist and do that shit.
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Post by Eleanor Rigby on Oct 6, 2013 4:46:51 GMT
I have never watched Silence of the Lambs, I don't handle cannibalism very well but Hostel doesn't bother me or movies like Saw, or other gory stuff either just no ppl eating ppl lol. There is only 1 horror movie I cannot watch, I have tried many times to watch it since I was a kid but it gets to a certain point and I have to turn it off.
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Post by Elementum on Oct 6, 2013 5:23:17 GMT
Great movie, scared the crap out of me.   DEAD RINGERS 1988 DAVID CRONENBERG The Mantle brothers are both doctors - both gynecologists - and identical twins. Mentally however, one of them is more confident than the other, and always manages to seduce the women he meets. When he's tired of his current partner, she is passed on to the other brother - without her knowing. Everything runs smoothly, until an actress visits their clinic, and the shy brother is the first to fall in love. Will they be able to 'share' her ? |
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Post by Eleanor Rigby on Oct 6, 2013 5:33:01 GMT
Good psychological movie  Haven't seen it in ages. |
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Post by Elementum on Oct 6, 2013 5:40:34 GMT
hehehe is it just me, or do the Mods here suck?
We are so off topic...LOL
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Post by Eleanor Rigby on Oct 6, 2013 5:49:37 GMT
The mods TOTALLY ROCK here! I never gott hat about getting off topic because ppl veer off in all kinds of directions in a normal conversation. I have rarely been in a conversation that didn't. If someone wants to bring it back around to the original topic then okay but to delete peoples posts or to say snarky things about them is uncalled for and serves no purpose at all but to alienate ppl.
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Haven't seen it in ages.