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Post by maremma67 on Jun 29, 2013 5:59:17 GMT
Hey now, you can't just go create a forum and the run off you know! LOL How are you doing? I am worried about you, you know.
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Post by SolarFlare on Jun 29, 2013 7:45:02 GMT
Here here!!! been tad busy
((((Maremma67))))
How are you doing?
Forum creation was about 2 hours or less..The Forum is the People. NO people = NO forum.
So should some of the cheekier ones get the boot, there is always another spot to land.
Shrink4men is also very good. That will be a good fit for a male dealing with a female NPD. Or BPD for that matter. Much harsher there.
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Post by CGisNuts on Jun 30, 2013 0:01:04 GMT
Hey, you here? I see who I posted to have found you. Glad for that.
It's OOTF's loss. Don't sweat it. Would you ever go back?
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Post by SolarFlare on Jun 30, 2013 3:25:06 GMT
Hello CGisNutz,
I am here and also at shrink4men.com <---- excellent site for men. Are you on that one? Really good!!!
If they let me back...sure, I am not angry about it. It's armor pictures, and they asked not. I posted a not so "violent" one..and smack...Ok....the rules are a little flippy on that, so...eh...oh well.
How are you doing?
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Post by CGisNuts on Jun 30, 2013 13:58:04 GMT
Doing okay. I have sorta a date this wednesday with my ex-roomate. She is soo hot and very cool. I'm not sure if she thinks it is a date or just hanging out. My gut tells me she's into me, as I could tell by how she looks at me. But I have never tried anything because she lived here and it would complicate everything.
Now, if I try something and I'm reading here wrong, no sweat. IDK, we shall see. But, I have not been with anyone else in over 12 years, and I may be totally wrong in my assumptions.
But what the heck, if I'm wrong, I can still be friends and it's no sweat. And..... I do not want to jump into any relationship, AND she knows that. It would just be Friends with benefits and she could still see other people.
As far as confidence, I'm a good looking guy so confidence isn't a weak point.
However, she is a cool friend so IDK, am I making the wrong move?
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Post by maremma67 on Jul 1, 2013 17:06:20 GMT
Maybe it would be a good idea to just hang out as friends for a while and then just wait and let nature takes it course in its own due time. That way if it really isn't suppose to happen at least you won't lose a good friend.
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Post by SolarFlare on Jul 2, 2013 8:17:56 GMT
Agree with Maremma67
Rather have a friend. Once you sleep together...not ever quite the same.
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Post by CGisNuts on Jul 2, 2013 12:57:22 GMT
That's what I was sort of planning. I read people too well. I get that feeling she is into me. I can tell by the way she looks at me.
I can do a test to gauge the "temp" and go from there.
But if I'm wrong, yes, I will probably lose a friend. When that happens, any text or call is over-analyzed by either party and nothing is ever the same.
Not sure I want to lose such a cool friend, BUT I really am into her.
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