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Post by freetobeme63 on Jul 24, 2013 22:59:36 GMT
This is one of the most important things I am worried about at the moment. What do I say and/or do if he walks up to me and confronts me while I am out and about back home? What if I am in Walmart or the grocery store or just anywhere and he walks up and confronts me about anything. I know there is a great chance he wont but, what if. Shouldn't I have an idea as to what to say if I am blocked from just walkin away? Since positive/negative response feeds their ego what is the best thing to say if we have to say anything at all. I mean I really never want that jerk to even hear the sound of my voice ever again. Especiall since he claimed he loved the sound of it so much (I really hate him for tellin me shit like that to. I mean one minute he said he loved me the next he acted like he hated me. Who knows about that kind of guy. I will run and dodge if at all possible but damn I am pretty worried about this one.
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Post by maremma67 on Jul 25, 2013 4:55:20 GMT
Oh boy, it is something that sadly is going to depend on how strong you are feeling at the time he comes around, what exactly it is he says and how it would affect you personally. It will also depend on where he is at in his personal life what it is that he would even say to you.
If he is with someone else at the time and things are going "well" with her (at the moment) you may well get attacked. In that case it would certainly benefit you to just sigh, shake your head (like oh geeze look at this two year old throwing a tantrum in the middle of the store)and walking away.
If he is not with anyone else or things aren't going well with them he may try to "sweet talk" you to see if he stands a chance of slithering his way back into your life. (at least temporarily until "something better comes along")Indeed in that case then you may well have to be blunt with him and say exactly that. "Umm don't waste your breath. I have to much self respect to be sucked back in with anymore of your lines of crap" and walk away.
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Post by freetobeme63 on Jul 25, 2013 10:40:20 GMT
Thank you Maremma67. That is some really good info there. I really hope I never run into him though. I hope I never see him at all anywhere. I feel like I need to prepare myself just in case though. What is really wierd is I have been havin dreams about him though I really can't remember the dream I see his face in my sleep. I have never been really one to dream alot (prolly because I am such a light sleeper) but I notice I have had a few of these for the past week or so. Maybe why I am feelin so on edge.
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