Post by Eleanor Rigby on Dec 29, 2013 15:22:27 GMT
I know with all of the other issues PD's have that money issues are just natural for them. I crawled my H butt this morning over our money issues. He blows money like it grows on trees and we have 5000 money trees in the backyard!
This time the crisis started because he wanted money to blow on a yearly shindig that goes on every November here regardless of the FACT that he borrowed $500 at the beginning of the month that HAD to be paid back on December 1st. He did NOT pay back the loan and now we are up shit creek AGAIN without a paddle.
My rant this morning went like this...
"This has gotten stupid. We have no money and the babies have nothing to eat, our bills are behind and I'm getting multiple calls every day from bill collectors. I'm sick of this shit and when you get paid and whatever you need to do to get your account straightened out is done then I'm paying the bills. To hell with that fucking race car, it's a money pit and I'm going to set the fucker on fire!! And another thing, I'm sick of being your fucking mother. Stop acting like a spoiled ten year old and lift a fat finger to help me around this fucking house!! You do NOTHING! When you're not sitting on your fat ass, stuffing your fat face with cookies, cakes and pies you're off running the damn streets and hanging out with your so called friends with no regard to how hard it is for me to get this fucking house clean and keep it that way. You can get up and help, you live here too. You have the audacity to get pissed off at me and make snide remarks when you don't have clean clothes but you do NOTHING to help me OR yourself!! I'm done with this shit!! If you can't start helping and keeping the fucking bills paid then we need to go our own ways."
His response?
"Whatever."
I lost it at that point and told him that no it is NOT whatever, it IS going to be the way I SAY it's going to be and if he doesn't like it then I'm out the fucking door!!!
Personally I think he's wanting me to leave but hasn't got the fucking balls to say it so I'm going to pay off what I can of MY bills and then I'm filing for divorce. Fuck him. He's a fucking pussy. I WANT A REAL MAN NOT A LITTLE BOY!!!
Was I a bitch? Did I sound like a PD? I DON'T FUCKING CARE ANYMORE!!! ENOUGH IS ENOUGH!!! BASTARD!!
This time the crisis started because he wanted money to blow on a yearly shindig that goes on every November here regardless of the FACT that he borrowed $500 at the beginning of the month that HAD to be paid back on December 1st. He did NOT pay back the loan and now we are up shit creek AGAIN without a paddle.
My rant this morning went like this...
"This has gotten stupid. We have no money and the babies have nothing to eat, our bills are behind and I'm getting multiple calls every day from bill collectors. I'm sick of this shit and when you get paid and whatever you need to do to get your account straightened out is done then I'm paying the bills. To hell with that fucking race car, it's a money pit and I'm going to set the fucker on fire!! And another thing, I'm sick of being your fucking mother. Stop acting like a spoiled ten year old and lift a fat finger to help me around this fucking house!! You do NOTHING! When you're not sitting on your fat ass, stuffing your fat face with cookies, cakes and pies you're off running the damn streets and hanging out with your so called friends with no regard to how hard it is for me to get this fucking house clean and keep it that way. You can get up and help, you live here too. You have the audacity to get pissed off at me and make snide remarks when you don't have clean clothes but you do NOTHING to help me OR yourself!! I'm done with this shit!! If you can't start helping and keeping the fucking bills paid then we need to go our own ways."
His response?
"Whatever."
I lost it at that point and told him that no it is NOT whatever, it IS going to be the way I SAY it's going to be and if he doesn't like it then I'm out the fucking door!!!
Personally I think he's wanting me to leave but hasn't got the fucking balls to say it so I'm going to pay off what I can of MY bills and then I'm filing for divorce. Fuck him. He's a fucking pussy. I WANT A REAL MAN NOT A LITTLE BOY!!!
Was I a bitch? Did I sound like a PD? I DON'T FUCKING CARE ANYMORE!!! ENOUGH IS ENOUGH!!! BASTARD!!