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Post by Elementum on Oct 8, 2013 0:59:37 GMT
Throwing this out there....
Is it my imagination or is there something rather sick and twisted going on with the Non support boards living with a PD?
Shrink4men, despite my negative experience is still an excellent source of information. BPDfamily has not much that's is particularly helpful for many cases other than the obvious and supposes that all situations are the same. For men in physically and sexually abusive situations the support is a negligible if that.
BPDfamily is knocking out entire posts within 5 seconds if it' includes a link to anything that is not PD friendly and smarmy and the Ugly Truth. Some posters even apologize for their anger there. That is so wrong.
"The Site" same thing. All outside links to other sources including research is getting the boot.
That observation is rather frightening.
Maybe it is me that is being hypersensitive, but I doubt it.
Silly question: Are you really that comfy with having your words, thoughts and feelings being pre formatted for you?
With regards to topics and information available, in my opinion, it's not a question of right/ wrong, which wanders into the realm of the Black/ White PD of absolutes. But rather one of having the information available, open to discussing it and coming up with a working conclusion based on your own experiences as well as those shared by others. Cherry picking through the research to support one's Point Of View is not helping anyone. It's a covert form of manipulation.
Your thoughts ? Even if you disagree, no problem there either.
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Post by Eleanor Rigby on Oct 8, 2013 2:26:48 GMT
As long as the information is relevant I see no problem with posting links. For someone to scour the many posts and eradicate all of the ones with "unapproved" links is like being trapped with a PD. You have to choose your words very carefully just to share your situation and that is wrong.
If I want to say something or post a link to something that is relevant to me and my situation then I should be able to do so without fear of penalty. We're allegedly all adults so I say suck it up your highnesses because life is often ugly.
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Post by Elementum on Oct 8, 2013 2:32:54 GMT
Yep. That's my thinking on that as well. It just freaks me out to see that. * cringe * I don't need to be "right" but that there are other ways of dealing with and viewing the same dynamic and only ONE being promoted as though it were "The Answer" is just "out there" in PD ville. I am still struggling to understand what the point of that is. Which brings me right back to your statement.
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Post by Eleanor Rigby on Oct 8, 2013 2:37:46 GMT
They've all gone off the deep end recently and that's why I'm over here because I would be getting myself banned from the internet, for life LMAO!
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Post by Elementum on Oct 8, 2013 2:52:22 GMT
LOL...I may very well be in the same boat with you *OH*...wait...I am !!!!! Always room for one more, and if over loaded we got ropes ....we'll make it!!!!
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Post by Eleanor Rigby on Oct 8, 2013 2:57:39 GMT
HAHA! Love it!
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Post by CGisNuts on Oct 8, 2013 3:30:30 GMT
How about Out of the Fog MTV claymation Deathmatch....... Eclipse vs 2Bad. "Oh 2Bad severs the head of Eclipse with a multiple / (backslash) link, blood sprays in the crowd of newbies. The head of Eclipse grows wings and blades of Momster quotes and cuts 2Bad to a million pieces, while BlowGo and Cristina eat the pieces of 2Bad laying on the wrestling mat....
Too graphic?
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Post by Elementum on Oct 8, 2013 4:19:47 GMT
lol...well...it is graphic, and it's fantasy. So , dunno about youz all, I am not one that gets easily offended by stuff like that. Just turn on the news for a nasty dose of reality.
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Post by Eleanor Rigby on Oct 8, 2013 6:57:36 GMT
LOL CG! I love that too!
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Post by Elementum on Oct 16, 2013 17:18:36 GMT
I get a kick out of this: Think About It... The Borderline and the narcissist. The borderline tends to be dominated mostly by abandonment fears, and the narcissistic person, by fear of the loss of specialness or appreciation.When the promise of that bond is threatened, the borderline responds with blame and attack defenses. The narcissist tends to withdraw, fears a loss of specialness, easily becomes injured or outraged ~Joan Lachkar, Ph.D..
Insert ~*~*~X files music~*~* somebody in the fandamily doesn't like me * boohoo* and the Red Pill and being the uber super control freaks with the last bit of nastiness that he could possibly pull, they linked all my old posts. And used my old handle. Very vindictive action I would say. And, I am laughing. Little bit power trippy and vindictive all rolled into one. Very familial or not? I feel so "abandoned" ...Not. And not overly Narcy. Dunno...
Maybe it was the mgtow.com link I slipped in there...? And a few others with a different WORLD view?? Heaven forbid a differing view point particularly in contrast to one that is clearly a failure. defyingptsd.wordpress.com/2012/10/16/ive-been-banned-from-bpdfamily-com/
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Post by streetdancer on Oct 17, 2013 13:02:24 GMT
WHO IS THE LAST PERSON YOU THINK WOULD HAVE BEEN SERVED A BAN ?
WANDERER WAS LAST NIGHT.
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Post by Elementum on Oct 17, 2013 14:02:05 GMT
WHAT? That's insane!!! For what reason? She is just a little one!
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Post by Eleanor Rigby on Oct 17, 2013 15:19:12 GMT
That is just insane but expected with the way they "think" over there anymore. Next up I'll get banned even though I have not participated on that site for over 6 weeks now lol.
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Post by Elementum on Oct 18, 2013 3:03:25 GMT
Wouldn't surprise me. Weirdest shit. What is the point of it?
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Post by wanderer on Oct 22, 2013 0:50:40 GMT
How about Out of the Fog MTV claymation Deathmatch....... Eclipse vs 2Bad. "Oh 2Bad severs the head of Eclipse with a multiple / (backslash) link, blood sprays in the crowd of newbies. The head of Eclipse grows wings and blades of Momster quotes and cuts 2Bad to a million pieces, while BlowGo and Cristina eat the pieces of 2Bad laying on the wrestling mat.... Too graphic? lol no its not...its what i'm predicting will happen once everyone leaves... They will just tear each other apart...
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